Are You Spending Too Much Time On Those That Don’t Appreciate You?

June 22, 2013



Are you living a congruent life? Who are you surrounding yourself with?
“Find Your Tribe.

You know, the ones that make you feel the most YOU. The ones that lift you up and help you remember who you really are. The ones that remind you that a blip in the road is just that, a blip, and not to mistake it for an earthquake, and even it were to be an earthquake, they’d be there with the Earthquake Emergency Supply Kit. They are the ones that, when you walk out of a room, they make you feel like a better person than when you walked in. They are the ones that, even if you don’t see them face to face as often as you’d like, you see them heart to heart. You know, that kind of tribe?”

She is not in my tribe.

Why do we spend time on the people who don’t like us?

Love to hear your thoughts on this, my beloved Tribe. Here is the essay about this via Positively Positive. Please read…. Post thoughts and share the video xoxo love xoox

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  • Reply reocochran June 22, 2013 at 8:20 pm

    This is meaningful, choosing people who make you feel better when you are leaving a room, so correct.

  • Reply KiKi Cutey June 23, 2013 at 1:56 pm

    I have been trying to find/attract my tribe/ I have been minimally successful. In fact there are a few people in my life right now that just seem to irritate the heck out of me. Blagh…

    I would really love to grow my circle with more heart-forward people.

    Thank you for the thoughts!

    • Reply JenPastiloff June 23, 2013 at 3:14 pm

      you just started xxox

      • Reply KiKi Cutey June 23, 2013 at 3:19 pm


  • Reply John AL. Campbell June 30, 2013 at 11:42 pm

    Hi Jen, I hope all is well. My tribe consist of you, Karen Salmansohn, Dashama Gordon, Chiaradina Cerweny, Kino MacGregor, musicians Ram Dass, and Nirinjan Kaur.. there are others though. People that I know are great. My tribe is a power house. 🙂

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