Welcome to The Manifestation Q&A Series.
I am Jennifer Pastiloff and this series is designed to introduce the world to someone I find incredible. Someone who is manifesting their dreams on a daily basis.
Someone like Wayne Dyer.
The greatest day of my life is here! My beloved Wayne Dyer is visiting us for a short q&a.
Wayne Dyer is THE reason I call my company “Manifestation Yoga.” When I started to achieve success as a yoga teacher very early on in my career people would ask how it was that I made such profound changes in my life so quickly. How so many amazing things kept showing up for me, from being on Good Morning America and traveling around the world with sold out retreats/workshops or becoming a writer for Positively Positive. As Wayne says: it is not our job to ask “how” or “when” but to say YES!
That is just what I did.
I do not think all of this happened because of Wayne Dyer but I do know that he was the most powerful teacher I could have ever prayed for. (And, to be clear, I did pray for a teacher.)
He showed up in my life exactly when I needed him to, as the teacher will do when the student is ready.
His talented and inspiring daughter Skye, who happens to be my dear friend, will be doing music for my upcoming yoga/life dvd so I did a Q&A with her in December. In it, I mentioned that my dream was to have her father do a Q&A.
Guess what? Ask for what you want and be prepared when it shows up.
And most definitely, honor your worthiness to receive.
I have Dr. Dyer on my vision board (of course.) I have thanked the Universe in advance daily for this opportunity.
I could go on and on about Dr. Dyer. How he is a father figure for me, how I listen to him talk about his children and how it humanizes him. How his humor gets me through some dark days (you will see some of his silly humor below). How I have learned to “let it be” and find the G-d within from his words. How I have relearned to believe in miracles. How I have cultivated a meditation practice despite the difficulty I have because of my tinnitus. (I will save that all for my book dedicated to him and my deceased father, Melvin Pastiloff.)
Dear Manifesters, the proof is in the pudding. Here I am, interviewing my beloved Dr Dyer. I have manifested my greatest dream.
I am humbled.
I live my life by the mantra “ How May I Serve?” yet another thing I have learned from Dr. Dyer.
Because of him, I decided to forego a traditional wedding and donate all my money from my wedding (in lieu of gifts) to Haiti after their earthquake. I do my best to let others shine their light. What I love about this man is that he is doing the very same! By him being here today, he has asked “How May I Serve?” and in doing so, he is enabling me to have my own dream come true. I have seen him do this more times than I can count, by the way. In fact, one of my other guests, Anita Moorjani, my friend who wrote the amazing book “Dying To Be Me” was introduced to me via Wayne Dyer.
He picks up inspiring people he believes and lets the world get to know them.
I will stop raving now.
Come to one of my Manifestation Workshops/retreats or the Tadasana Festival in Santa Monica on Earth Day weekend. if you want more Wayne Dyer quotes or inspirations or read one of my Positively Positive articles.
I got more Wayne.
I got tons more on Wayne Dyer, the man who helped me change my life and discover my bliss.
(Do you think I am too old to be adopted by him?)
Jennifer Pastiloff: What are you most proud to have manifested in your life?
Wayne Dyer: The divine love in my heart.
Jennifer Pastiloff: What is your favorite part of having Skye sing on stage with you? Having lost my dad at age 8, I could not stop sobbing the first time I saw you two up there together. That feeling from that first night I saw you both live in Santa Monica is still with me.
Wayne Dyer: She brings her supreme talent to my audience along with her gracious and loving personality, which I feel so proud to watch.
Jennifer Pastiloff: I am so moved by the forgiveness you have shown toward your father. Forgiveness is something I struggle with often. The last thing I ever said to my dad was “ I hate you.” What would you say helped you the most in forgiving your father? What would you also say in regards to someone who is struggling with forgiving themselves?I know when I do ‘Forgiveness” themed meditations in my Manifestation Workshops, they are the most powerful. People are the usually most moved when I ask them to meditate on forgiving themselves.
Wayne Dyer: I was sent by forces bigger than all of us to his grave for the purpose of forgiveness, even though I wasn’t aware of it. Forgiveness is for yourself and not for the other person, it clears your soul of rage and that is why its so important to forgive.
Jennifer Pastiloff: I have a list of “rules”. See below. What would some of Wayne Dyer’s be?
Wayne Dyer: I live by the Tao, a man of the Tao is kind to the kind and kind to the unkind because kindness is his nature.
Jennifer Pastiloff: In my workshops I have people share with the room, and in writing, what it is they are manifesting in their lives. I may be wrong, and please correct me if I am, but I thought I have read that you suggest to keep what you are manifesting private. I go back and forth. Suggestions?
Wayne Dyer: It’s absolutely crucial to keep it private because that keeps the ego out of the process. My feelings are: Don’t explain, Don’t complain.
Jennifer Pastiloff: What is the greatest lesson you have learned from your kids?
Wayne Dyer: Don’t have any more. Just kidding.
I used all ‘S’ names and I should have used “Stop” for the first one.. Only joking.
Having children gives you an opportunity to truly experience divine love which is no matter what they do or who they are or what they choose, you still always love them.
Jennifer Pastiloff: I guess I will have to change my name to “Sennifer” to be adopted by you then.
My sister Rachel, whose one son has Prader Willi Syndrome asked me to ask you the following: How does one continue to manifest your dreams while being a parent? I recall you saying children will challenge your worthiness to receive the most, somewhat facetiously, of course.
Wayne Dyer: Parents are not for learning. They make learning unnecessary. Manifest your dreams by letting your children manifest theirs.
Jennifer Pastiloff: Do you practice yoga? (When are you coming to one of my classes, ahem? It’s NOT Bikram!)
Wayne Dyer: Yes, I practice Bikram yoga everyday. Maybe one day I will come to one of your classes 🙂
(Note from Jen: Yay! Yay! Yay!)
Jennifer Pastiloff: Gratitude is the greatest force In my life. Most of my classes are set to this theme. If you could say thank you right now, who would it be to?
Wayne Dyer: I thank everyday the “I am” presence that is located within me. I am in a state of gratitude for the “I am” presence that is the life that is in my body.
Jennifer Pastiloff: One of the things I love most about you is your humor and the fact that you seemingly do not take yourself too seriously (Note from Jen: After reading this you will indeed believe that this amazing man does NOT take himself too seriously at all. What a gift!).
I have a “rule” in my yoga class which is “ if you fall you must laugh”. You are not allowed to take yourself seriously in my room. Being mostly deaf I have learned to laugh at myself in a way that has surprised even me sometimes, because the alternative was to feel sorry for myself. And that, I believe, is my ego at work. What part does humor play in your life? When is the last time you have laughed at yourself?
Wayne Dyer: One of the most important lessons I have learned is to not take yourself too seriously. Yes, that is the work of the ego.
I laugh at myself everyday.
Jennifer Pastiloff: Based on your answers I can tell you laugh at yourself daily and I love that balance. I absolutely cherished the film “The Shift.” ( I knew I wanted to be on ‘The Ellen Show’ (currently working on getting my Karaoke Yoga on there as we speak) but when I saw her wife Portia in your film, it was a done deal! When I found out you married them I almost fell out of my seat.) Can we expect any more films from you soon?
Wayne Dyer: I have a new film, My Greatest Teacher, which is based on a series of miracles that occurred and brought me to my father’s grave, which is where I learned forgiveness. I have a mind that is open to all things and attached to nothing so anything could happen, including another film.
Jennifer Pastiloff: Can you tell us about your latest book?
Wayne Dyer: Wishes Fulfilled, my latest book, is about understanding spiritual manifestation; you manifest what you are rather than what you find is missing in your life.
Jennifer Pastiloff: I am writing a book on how I manifested my dreams and overcame depression and adversities like hearing loss. I am struggling. Any tips on the writing process from someone who has written so many books?
Wayne Dyer: Writing is not what I do, writing is what I am. It is how I express my whole humanity.
Jennifer Pastiloff: Did you finally get a computer? I remember you saying you wrote your books by hand.
Wayne Dyer: I have an iPad (which I am using to write this) and the thing I like most about it is the trash button. Anything that comes at me that I don’t want to hear, I just push trash and then delete.
I am trying to figure out a way to get one of those in my real life.
I am still writing my books by hand though.
Jennifer Pastiloff: How has meditation changed your life?
Wayne Dyer: Herman Melville said ” God’s one and only voice is silence”. Meditation allowed me to make conscious contact with God.
Jennifer Pastiloff: What do you think the 5 greatest keys to the manifesting process are?
Wayne Dyer: I don’t think linear and I don’t think numerically. The only key to manifesting is staying connected to your source of being, which is the author of all things.
Jennifer Pastiloff: Everytime I see you, I am amazed at how great you look. As if you are ageless. Can you tell us about this? I know we all die, of course, but I am fascinated by the idea that everything about how we live is a choice. As you say, you can be miserable or motivate yourself, the choice is yours. I look at you and see someone so vibrant and full of life.
Wayne Dyer: At my essence I am birthless, deathless, and changeless, that is who I am. This body I am in is just a container for my formless soul.
Jennifer Pastiloff: How is your health now? What has the journey been like since you were diagnosed with leukemia?
Wayne Dyer: I am perfect health. I am well.
Jennifer Pastiloff: One of the things that shifted my life the most was when you spoke of Manifesting at your Santa Monica talk and gave us 7 steps. You said one of them was “ Does It feel natural to you?” I thought about my prior career as an actor and realized that it had never felt natural. What I am doing now does. I cannot imagine another life, nor a life without you as my teacher. How and when did you discover this principle?
Wayne Dyer: Generally speaking something not feeling natural means you feel unworthy of what you would like to attract into your life. It doesn’t feel natural for a person who has always been poor to feel prosperous. Drug addicts can’t picture themselves free of their addiction, but our natural state is one of well being and unlimited potential.
Jennifer Pastiloff: What are you manifesting in 2012?
Wayne Dyer: A four hour erection but I am consulting my doctor.
I am manifesting experiential awareness of divine love!
Thank you Jen.
Jennifer Pastiloff: Thank you, Dr. Dyer. I love you.
At 72 years young this man still has a sense of humor like no one else and a life energy and force to be admired. I love you Wayne!
1. Be Kind.
2. Have a sense of humor especially when it comes to yourself
3. Write poems, even if only in your head
4. Sing out loud, even if badly
6. If you don’t have anything nice to say… you know the deal
7. Find things to be in awe of
8. Be grateful for what you have right now .
9. Watch Modern Family, read Wayne Dyer, and end every complaint with “But I’m so blessed!”
10. Duh, do yoga
11. Don’t worry. Everyone on Facebook seems like they have happier and funner lives. They don’t.
12. Tell someone you love that you love them. Right now.
13.. Take more pictures.
14. Forgive yourself for not being perfect. no such thing.
15. Thank the Universe in advance.
You can see why I love this man so much. Not only is he enlightened but he is funny and silly! I will be seeing him and Anita Moorjani, and of course the lovely Skye Dyer in San Jose March 17th. Join me!
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Thank You Jennifer and Dr. Dyer <3 I AM Grateful!!
thank you!! cannot wait to manifest teaching at your studio. Let’s make it happen x
Amazing… Funny… Beautiful and full of LOVE. Thank you both so much for all the inspiration.
So funny! He is such a great example of not taking yourself too seriously.
Thank you Dr. Dyer & thank you Jennifer. You’re both wonderful examples of goodness. Sincere. Loving kindness. Wholehearted. Enlightening. Uplifting. And of course, inspiring. Wow, Jennifer … your blog posts are incredibly powerful & helpful. Am humbly amazed. Endlessly grateful. Wow.
Thank you James. You are pretty powerful yourself.
OMG…”A four hour erection.” I almost fell out of my seat! Loved the interview by the way. I have never read one of his books, but everysince I’ve been following you and hearing his name, of course he has been popping up everywhere, lol. I plan on getting a book really soon.
isn’t he a hoot?
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I love Wayne Dyer as much as you do. His words resonated with me the first time I was introduced to one of his books. Love the article.
Thank you Jennifer. People sometimes say that the beautiful things happen to the beautiful people, and I believe that, because you are such an amazing, inspiring and beautiful person whose soul shines it’s beauty and touches far and beyond. So grateful that you walked into my life. ❤
Thank you Dr. Dyer. As usually, trying to absorb and memorize every sentence you said. So grateful.
yay! I will see you guys tom night and if you want to come as my guest again please do xo
So awesome! You are going to manifest so much more in 2012!
I just want to say “you did it again Jen!” I love that you manifested this interview to share so graciously with your readers and I love the insight that Dr. Dyer brings!
WOW, Amazing interview Jen! I feel like I personally know him. So grateful, my friend, Thank you for being you and doing all that you do!!! xoxoxo
Wow, incredible Jen. How blessed you are. You know the famous party question, “if you could have dinner with one person, who would it be?” Wayne Dyer is very high on my list. His books and teachings have changed my life, as they clearly have yours. I too have had him on my vision boards. 🙂
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In case you missed this the first time around, here is my interview with my beloved teacher Wayne Dyer. After hanging with him last weekend in Atlanta I felt the need to re-share this gem. Enjoy xo jen
Love Love Wayne Dyer! he is one of my heros…such a simple man that radiates so much love….this was one of the best interviews I could actually hear his voice in my head he is hysterical…and there is nothing more beautiful then being in his presence when his daughter Skye is singing…it’s pure LOVE!! Thank you for sharing!
Hi Jen! Can you recommend a few of his books to start with? I’ve never read anything by him and am just so overwhelmed with all of the choices! Thanks! And, p.s., love your writing!
hi! I love Excuses Begone.. Get that to start. Or The Power Of Intention. Or wishes fulfilled
Thank you, thank you! Off to the bookstore now to get all three! Thank you for making my day (and helping me change my life) :).
Wayne is such an inspiration! Thank you for all you contribute here! xx ~ Trèsors De Luxe
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